Showing posts with label Great Marriages. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Great Marriages. Show all posts

Monday, November 30, 2009

Basic Theology of Salvation and Sanctification


Why is there so much confusion about practical Christianity among Believers? In fact, even many Pastors are confused about how people are saved and how they can be sanctified. I hear it every day and I see it in many Clergy. I must be frank and admit that I was as confused or more confused than most by this question. I grew up among people who loved a good argument about theological issues. Well, we loved a good argument anyway.

It was not until I met a Lutheran Theologian from Thousand Oaks, California that I found a system that allowed me to put a lot of theological loose ends together. The man's name was Dr. James Kallas. He was a theological lecturer on a cruise ship loaded with Christians coasting from port to port from Holland to Germany to Denmark, Norway, Sweden, Finland and the USSR. In every place Dr. Kallas taught about how its culture, society, legal system and social structure had been influenced by a particular theological stream of thought.

When I heard his system I was immediately struck by how well it described the various people who came to counselors and pastors for help with personal problems. Dr. Kallas' system was broken into three streams or emphases based on how they perceived fallen nature. Some people, and thus nations see "sin" and personal problems as Rebellion that must be stopped by laws and constraints.

Others see problems as proof that they are Guilty and must be punished. Finally, some countries see bad behavior as the result of brokenness or sickness that cannot be altered by punishment or by passing new laws but people who just need to be medicated, taught or healed.

These three basic problems, so said Kallas, could be summarized as Rebellion, Guilt and Bondage. His teachings opened my eyes to the different ways people conceive of their problems. If I, as a Minister/Counselor, perceived their problem differently it goes without saying that my advise would be unwelcome, unheeded and ineffective.

That cruise was designed to be a Study Leave for me. I had signed up to accompany and learn from a famous pastor and writer. I did follow him and listen to his lectures but the real reason God had me on that boat was to meet Dr. Kallas.

Next time? More ways to understand and bring the good news to people and nations.

Monday, July 20, 2009

Great Relationships


Why is the Federal Government spending money like drunken sailors and everyone else is cutting back? Why does Congress think they can just print money with no long term consequences?

Why are so many men in power going crazy and losing their jobs, careers, wives and reputations for a few nights of hot sex?

I don't know all the answers but I do have some help for couples and families. On August 29 I am doing a Marriage Mentors Training. One of the best ways to save money is to save your marriage. Couples in conflict spend more money, drink too much, eat too much and smoke too much.

I will also tell you why Governor Sanford lost it despite having an "Accountability Group" and an "Accountability Guru". He needed help from a wise minister and counselor. He needed and needs: (Fill in the blank) _________________________ !

What would you have done if Sanford was in your small group and you saw his temptation? How do we prevent men and women from going crazy?

Healthy couples have longer lives and happier times when they are alive. They have better sex, better homes and better realtionships with their in laws.

Go to my web page for more information.